Monday, May 04, 2009

I'm okay...

We're doing okay.

The last two months have been a roller-coaster ride: one second we're very happy, the next moment was the exact opposite.

Maybe it was a dash of reminder that we need to prepare more, psychologically and financially. Maybe it was a way of saying that we cannot rush everything.
Maybe we are being told to wait for the right time, for the right moment.

And when we are really ready, thru His time, on His will, He will finally give us what we thought we already have.

My wife had a miscarriage a week before my birthday, but she's doing fine, we're doing fine.

We're doing okay now, and we just thought of that chapter in our married life as "pang-balanse ng buhay." And the little angel we didn't get to see is up there with my father.

17 comments:

jho said...

Im so sorry to hear about the miscarriage. At least may kasama na ang father mo sa heaven.

Gawa na lang uli.

atticus said...

zherwin, ading...so sorry to hear that. hamo, tama ka. His time. His will.

take care of each other, okay?

Mahalia said...

Praying that God will shower you with comfort and Love.

zherwin said...

jho, salamat, ganun na nga ang mangyayari, gagawa ulit :D

zherwin said...

atticus, syempre, for better or for worse. thanks

zherwin said...

mahalia, thank you, God bless.

the donG said...

sad to know about that. my mother also had a miscarriage. we made sure that we gave a name to our little angel. im sure he's now with God.

wickedlysexy said...

I understand how you feel. I had a miscarriage on my exact birthday. Masakit but life has to go on.Tama, we just have to bear in mind that everything should be in His Time, in His Will.

Pray for your little angel and remember that trying to conceive is a happy phase in a married person's life. We have been trying for a baby for four years now.

nona said...

I read the good news first before I read the latest...so sorry to hear about it.
Nararamdaman ko ang feelings niyong mag-asawa kasi nakunan din ako dati.Tama ka in HIS time and Will darating din ang para sa inyo. God bless Zherwin...

dodong flores said...

Hi, Zherwin. I don't know what to say. I understand how painful it is. I'm just glad that you're overcoming the pain. I thank God your couple is now okay despite of the lose...

Belle said...

Zherwin, so sorry to hear that. But, that is usually the case for the first time mother. There is usually this false alarm at the beginning, preparing the mother for the motherhood. The mother's physiology has to change...Sad,but it happens for most of us.

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Rudy said...

I'm so sorry to read about the miscarriage. But, you're right, there is a time everything. Maybe not now, but definitely it will happen one day. Take care pards and belated Happy B-day.

IA said...

Sad to hear about your loss, but happy to hear that you're both doing fine.

take care you two!

zherwin said...

everyone, thank you for all the support, things do happen for a reason (or reasons) and we should be glad to have and/or experience them as they make us (hopefully) better.

Rico said...

I can only imagine what you and your wife went through. He has nothing but good plans. God bless!

Panaderos said...

I'm very sorry to hear about the miscarriage. I'm sorry for this rather late message because I've been quite absent from bloghopping these past few months.

Anyway, I hope you and your wife are well. Please take care always.

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